"Was it as loud as we think" is difficult to answer, since it's opinion-based. But since sound is nothing but longitudal oscillations in a gaseous medium, Big Bang was not at all silent.
If the Universe were completely homogeneous, it would stay like that. But primordial quantum fluctuations ensured that space was a tiny bit more dense in some places, and a tiny bit more dilute in other places.
Gravitation then ensured that the overdensities attracted matter and grew in size, until the pressure thus built up resisted further compression, and waves traveled outward from these overdensities. They then contracted and expanded again a few times, until 380,000 years after Big Bang when the photons decoupled from the gas, relieving the gas of its pressure, and freezing the waves in (comoving) space.
This phenomenon is called baryonic acoustic oscillations (BAOs). You may also be interested in my answer to the question "What is the speed of sound in space?"
However, humans wouldn't be able to hear it, since the wavelength (at decoupling) were roughly half a million lightyears, and the corresponding frequency thus orders of magnitues below the human threshold of ~20 Hz. Due to the expansion of space, the frequency increases as we go back in time, and scaling by a factor of $sim10^{26}$, it is possible to get a notion of what the early Universe sounded like. This has been done e.g. by John Cramer from U. of Washington on the basis of WMAP's observations of the cosmic microwave background which hold information about the BAOs.
You can hear it here. It doesn't really sound nice, though.